Oof. That subtle (not so subtle) dismissive language in service of comfort and the status quo is infuriating and all too common. Thank you for continuing to stand up to it. If there is any way we can help from outside your area (other than standing up for the kids here at home), please let us (me) know.
This one gave me shivers of recognition as I navigate implicit permission spaces and community care where there is no formal “community” - rather there are “concerns” for the power over folks. No attention or care to the people who are harmed. Comfort building and control.
Thank you. Grateful to be on the journey with you and a focus on the kids.
Oof. That subtle (not so subtle) dismissive language in service of comfort and the status quo is infuriating and all too common. Thank you for continuing to stand up to it. If there is any way we can help from outside your area (other than standing up for the kids here at home), please let us (me) know.
Alana, thank you – for reading, affirming, and your offer to help. The solidarity and shared commitment are so important and sustaining. xo
This one gave me shivers of recognition as I navigate implicit permission spaces and community care where there is no formal “community” - rather there are “concerns” for the power over folks. No attention or care to the people who are harmed. Comfort building and control.
Thank you. Grateful to be on the journey with you and a focus on the kids.
Mair, "comfort building and control." Exactly. I'm grateful, too.